Congratulations on recognizing Perfection when you see it. You’ve taken the first step to giving your life a purpose by serving Me, Mistress Kiara. I have been a Femdom Mistress since 2005. I’ve seen others come and go, but I can’t stay away from this life! Love what you do and you’ll never work a day in your life, and I LOVE being a Femdom Goddess!
slaveboysmith: Today at DommeAddiction, I am joined by the amazing Mistress Kiara. Welcome to DA, Mistress, and thank you for allowing me this audience before you today.
Mistress Kiara: You’re very welcome. Always happy to talk to a fan about My journey as a Dominatrix. I often find that these interviews help Me to learn more about Myself as well!
sbs: With that in mind, let me start out by asking you to share a little about how you became a Dominatrix, what led you to it, and whether you have always known the power you hold over others?
MK: I had always had a Dominant personality, but in My first year of college (2005), a friend said she was getting into phone sex and asked if I would I like to join her. I tried it for a bit, but I HATED it. So instead of just quitting, I instead talked to the company head about it. I told her, “that’s not really My thing, but what about Domination and fetish phone sex instead?” She agreed to let Me try it out and it all went from there…I learned more about the different things I enjoyed, the names of the fetishes that I had enjoyed privately but had never known what to call them. My porn collection exploded when I learned what keywords to search for lol – it was such a wonderful, eye opening experience! But then I got greedy… I saw the amount of money the company was making off of Me and how little of it actually went into My deserving hands. I said “Fuck that!” and bought a domain name and started My own business. Now I run a similar company for a few other of My close Domme friends who don’t have the time or energy to promote for themselves. It’s called Pretty Punk Princesses.
sbs: Pretty Punk Princesses…now that sounds like something that will lure in more than a few men! What can you tell us about PPP and what awaits those curious as they read this and inevitably clicking on the link I will include?
MK: PPP is all about serving Royalty. It features Me and My friends simply being the Superior Beings that We know We are. We have clips on several platforms and We offer private sessions as well, both distance Domination and via phone or cam.
sbs: For yourself, are there specific fetishes you enjoy more than others, and any hard limits you wish our readers to be aware of and avoid asking you about?
MK: I think We ALL have favorites when it comes to fetishes, and I’m no different. I think My number one is blackmail fetish. I just LOVE the amount of control it gives Me, even in a long-distance D/s relationship. I also love hypnosis for the same reason, and I’m a certified hypnotist and have been for the past decade or so. My other favorite fetishes include forced intoxication, humiliation, foot worship, sissy training, CBT, tease & denial, chastity & key holding, impact play, anal training, and of course financial domination.
As far as hard limits, I haven’t found many, but the few I do have are rather important to Me. I don’t allow any of My subs to see Me completely naked. I’ve sold topless pictures and ass pictures for about $100 each but that’s as far as I’ll go. I feel that no one is worthy of seeing My beautiful body except My chosen life partners. I also don’t really like needles, vomit, blood, and of course I don’t do anything involving those who did not or cannot consent to fetish play. I can’t fart on command either, so I don’t do farting sessions or content. My first hard limit that I ever discovered was being hugged while the sub is crying and also has a boner. Any two out of the three are fine, but once you add all three together I just can’t handle it.
sbs: So if you’re going to hug, either don’t cry, or don’t be hard. Words to the wise. Can you describe how it feels for you to have such power and control over another person while in session?
MK: Honestly, it’s the best feeling I’ve ever had. It’s SO empowering, and it just reinforces everything I know about how badass I am! But more than that, I enjoy the trust and vulnerability that subs give to Me in return for My dominance. I love seeing someone feel safe enough to explore their deepest, darkest fantasies with Me.
sbs: Do you see both male and female submissives in session, and does the type of session and style of domination vary in general between the two?
MK: Yes and yes. I love to enjoy sessions with subs of all genders, or lack thereof. I see females, trans, and non-binary subs as well as male submissives. When a female sub approaches Me, it can go one of two ways. Sometimes, she has a chip on her shoulder because she’s a female and doesn’t consider herself to be on the same level as male subs. That’s always hard to break through. But sometimes female subs are much more sweet and caring than male subs. Many who contact Me for sessions want just that; a session wherein they give Me money and I dispense fetish play like a robot. But female subs in general seem to care more about Me as a person. They truly want to make My life better. They want to know about My thoughts, feelings, family, hobbies, pets, etc. And honestly, I feel like that is how ALL subs should be, don’t you?
sbs: Absolutely…I think it’s a maturation process for a submissive to get beyond their wants/needs and focus solely on their Domme. If you could have one celebrity, or well known person, giving you the kind of focus and servitude you just described, who would it be, and why?
MK: Dan Avidan, AKA Danny Sexbang from Game Grumps and Ninja Sex Party. He just seems SO SWEET! And there are things he’s said that let Me KNOW that he’s a sub. For example, in the middle of their let’s play of Phoenix Wright, he mumbles “Mmmm step on me, mommy~!” or something similar in the background while they’re talking to a Woman in charge. I laughed out loud at that!
sbs: I can only imagine the things you might have him doing as he served you! For those unable to serve in person, especially in these trying times of isolation, you mentioned a few other distance/online options. Can you share a little more of how you train submissives from all over the world without them ever meeting you in person perhaps?
MK: Well, I started out on the phone, and that remains one of My more popular options for distance Domination. I also offer cam sessions, texting or IM sessions, clips, pictures, and assignments as well. And I offer customs as well if the pre-made ones don’t spark your fancy. Recently, I’ve been getting into more special effects editing and that has been the main focus of My more elaborate clips.
sbs: For those reading this feature, perhaps unfamiliar with your clip work, what one clip would you demand they buy right now to experience Mistress Kiara in her most amazing style?
MK: It really depends on what your favorite fetish is, but My most recent favorite is “Eye Entrancement Spiral Mindfuck”. It was in the top 10 of all “Mesmerize” clips on Clips4Sale for quite a while, and I’m super proud of the editing I did on both the audio and visual effects.
sbs: That looks like intoxicating and very heady mindfuck stuff. With all that you’ve already experienced within the world of Femdom, what remains on your bucketlist that your adoring fans may be looking forward to you taking on in the future?
MK: I’m a website and graphic design addict. I own more domain names than I care to admit. My main site, MistressKiarasDungeon.com has been up for years. I also have the more recent BlackmailFetish.com as well as RateMyTinyPenis.com where you can get your dick pics rated for free. In the works still are a hypnosis website, a forced intoxication website, a foot fetish website, a Findom centered website, and an arcade-style website where all the games will have a fetish theme. I also create websites and banners for other sex workers. It’s a very enjoyable and lucrative hobby of Mine! I am also tossing around the idea of making a Facebook-style social media platform for Femdom and Findom as well, but we’ll see.
sbs: It certainly doesn’t sound like you plan to rest which is great for your worshipers. You’ve mentioned blackmail on a couple of occasions, what can you share of why it is such a special fetish of yours, and what it looks like under your control?
MK: Since I started out originally as an exclusively distance Domme, I discovered that there are really only three ways to control a sub without being physically with him. You can control his finances, his orgasms, or his private information. Not everyone is into Findom, and not everyone can mail out their chastity key. But I’ve found that most subs are willing to send Me some pictures and blackmail information…The way I do blackmail is a bit different. I first require a sub to send a small ($10) tribute. In return, I send them a 23 item questionnaire to figure out exactly what kind of blackmail contract would work best for them. The questionnaire has no personal questions on it, and is not a commitment to blackmail itself. It just asks things like “What is it about a beautiful Woman blackmailing you that turns you on so much?” and similar questions about how their ideal blackmail fetish would work.
The contract includes things like how much and how often tributes are to be paid, if and how often sessions and assignments must be completed, buyout information, standard fees for information and picture removal in case they become exposed, etc. It also has a section where they must fill in some personal information about themselves. Once the questionnaire is returned, I send them a personalized blackmail contract. They can then either choose to fill out the contract or not. If they fill it out, that’s when the fun begins! If they don’t, well, then they don’t get My expert level blackmail fetish services.
sbs: And are there limits or once a contract is signed and returned, is it completely under your control? I guess what I’m asking is how far does it go? Wife gets a phone call? Exposure of private pictures or information? And how do you strike a balance between play and reality with devastating consequences?
MK: As I mentioned before, and I know this will break the fantasy for many reading this, I don’t involve those who didn’t or can’t consent to our private fetish play. That means that, unless you get your wife to give Me an email where she explicitly agrees to being called about blackmail fetish by Me, I’m not going to out you to her. All blackmail subs are welcome to establish a safe word in case things get too scary, but if you continually use the safe word then I’m not going to be interested in playing anymore. And to be honest, I’ve only ever had one person even WANT a safe word. I don’t expose on Twitter (it’s against their terms of service and I lost My twitter account with nearly 10K followers for doing so in the past). I only expose on My personal websites and select other discussed places on the internet. They are always allowed to request that their information and pictures be removed from My websites… As long as they’re willing to pay the removal fee, of course.
sbs: Of course. I imagine a fair bit of trust need be established on both sides to know how that kind of play would work best with each individual submissive. Very informative, as was this entire interview. Thank you so much for sharing today Domina. Anything else you wish our readers to know before this interview comes to an end?
MK: I personally feel that trust is key with ALL D/s interactions. And thank you for having Me! If anyone wants to find Me, the best place to interact is Twitter or Niteflirt. I also update My website with new content at least once per week as well. I’m looking forward to ensnaring you in My web very soon…
sbs: Well as you have ensnared me today in that web, may this very privileged slaveboy please ask one final question of you before crawling away and getting to work?
MK: Of course, pet.
sbs: Mmmm…thank you Domina. If we were conducting this interview in person, me kneeling before you as I asked my questions, falling more and more under your spell with every response, how might this interview conclude?
MK: Hehe well that depends on what fetishes you personally enjoy, but if I had it My way perhaps some foot worship, a spanking, and a little bit of training… 
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