~ I am Domina Elara ~
I’m an Asian Dominatrix who loves psychological domination, roleplays, Findom and foot & body worship. Mommy to good boys. Goddess to eager pets. Domme GF for the wayward boyfriend.
I’m here to have fun with boys who are hungry to please and excited to get used for my satisfaction.
slaveboysmith: Today at DommeAddiction finds this very lucky slaveboy kneeling before an exquisitely beautiful Asian Dominatrix who has me completely under her spell. Welcome to DA, Domina Elara, and thank you for this opportunity to bow before you and have you share your story with us today. For any who follow you, it is very evident you control men with ease. Has that always been the case? Do you recall when you first realized the power you hold over men?
Domina Elara: I don’t think there was ever a specific time. It was more a realization that a lot of men want to be dominated and wanted me to dominate them. And it was easy for me to pick up on what men’s sexual motivations were very quickly.
sbs: Are you naturally dominant in every aspect of your life, or is Femdom more a roleplay for you when interacting with slaves?
Natural Born Domme
DE: I am unfortunately naturally dominant in most aspects of my life. I often have a sense of what I want, desire and need. And I make it happen. I say “unfortunate” because in my observations, being someone who doesn’t simply like going along with the flow is often more work and more taxing than simply being someone who is happy with things as they are. My submissives get to enjoy the extension of my natural self – the fun, sexy parts of me.
sbs: If you could have one celebrity, or well known person, completely at your mercy, willing to do anything you demanded of them, who would it be, and why?
Celeb Submissives?
DE:
- Bill Nye – He’s iconic. He is also so tall and I am not. So that in and of itself would be adorable.
- Brennan Lee Mulligan – If you know, you know.
- Rae Lil Black – She’s SO CUTE.
sbs: Is there a specific type of slave you find is drawn to you, Domina Elara? And do you have an ideal in mind for the “perfect slave”?
DE: Most of my slaves are pretty smart. I think I do attract a smart crowd, which is very fun. I love it. “Perfect Slave” – for me it would be a slave who takes a certain level of ownership and direction of their kinks and desires. And then I work in partnership, oversight and control over it. This can be seen by submissives self advocating their desires. Messaging me about setting up a video call. Asking directly about long term ownership when they are ready to commit. Coming to me with a desire and fantasy but being open to collaboration and my input. This is as opposed to a submissive who just yells into the void “Wow! I would love to be dominated by you, Goddess! ” with no accompanying action of a tribute or any indicators of what their kinks are.
Bratty subs Need Not Apply
sbs: Do you prefer to break and enslave men who might resist, or use well-trained ones that are already broken in?
DE: Men who resist are not my audience. They bore me. I am not a fan of brats or people who resist. I love enthusiastic submissives. So hot. Submissives who enthusiastically (even if shyly) tell me how much they want to play with me. How much they love our play. Even if they are shy and don’t say much but enthusiastically play with me by opening my messages, I love it! It shows me we are having a connection and it makes me so happy and turned on!
sbs: In looking through your Twitter, it is obvious that using your beauty and power to completely weaken slaves is a recurring theme in many of your tweets and content. Would you consider yourself more of a sensual teasing Domme or are you more sadistic and cruel, and do you have specific fetishes you enjoy exploring with your slaves?
DE: I would say I am more sensual and nurturing. I have sadistic streak but it only comes out with the right sub who is bountifully enthusiastic about it. But in general, I am more sensual and nurturing. My main kinks are erotic hypnosis, chastity, slut training, tease & denial. My secondary kinks are roleplay, homewrecking, feet & legs, humiliation.
A Sexual Rush
sbs: Can you describe the feeling you have when you have control of a slave, desperately doing whatever it takes to please you? Is it a rush, or just an expected outcome you’ve grown used to?
DE: It’s a sexual rush. It’s such a turn on when the connection is palpable. It’s like time stops and there is no one else but us. I can only experience that with an enthusiastic submissive.
sbs: Do you see submissives in person for real time encounters, Domina Elara? And if not, or for those who are not able to visit you in person, what opportunities are there for devoted pets to serve, obey and worship from afar?
DE: I do see submissives in person. However I am extremely selective as the play I love in person is different to the play I love online. Fill out an application on my site. From afar, I would say join my fan sites (introduce yourself there) and buy my clips!
How To Impress Domina Elara
sbs: For slaves looking to impress you, what is the best way for them to show you they are sincere in their desire to serve and spoil and make their best first impression on you?
DE: Subscribe to my fan sites, introduce yourself in the DM’s, your kinks, how you best love to play (video calls, text sessions, watching videos, etc) and attach a $50 or more tribute to the message. Never be entitled to my time, but advocate for your interests and desires and let’s set up a time to engage if I cannot in that moment. Enthusiastically participate in play. Be respectful and thankful for our time together as it is very special.
sbs: Is there anything else you would like to tell your admiring worshipers reading this interview, Domina Elara?
DE: Find me and all my links on DominaElara.com.
sbs: If you would oblige me one final question…if we were conducting this interview in person, me kneeling before you as I asked my questions, overwhelmed by your striking beauty, how might such an interview end?
DE: I’d pet you on the head and tell you to go publish this and let me review it. Then promote the hell out of it and make me proud slaveboy.
