Feature Interview: Miss London Lix

She is an extraordinary cocktease, humiliatrix and financial dominatrix and once you’ve fallen under Miss London Lix’s spell, there’s no hope for you! I will simply say that as you read her responses to the questions posed before her, you will realize that as beautiful as she is, her seductive and manipulative mind is her greatest asset. She will get inside your head and twist you around your favourite fantasy in ways you can’t even comprehend. Enjoy getting to know a little more about this wickedly sexy Temptress and have your wallet ready to give her everything she wants!

slaveboysmith: How long have you been doing this, and how did you become an online dominatrix?

Miss London Lix: I have been doing this for 9 years! The way I stumbled into BDSM and online dommes was like something out of a bad porn movie, I swear, haha. I was in College (aged 18) & a boyfriend at the time was very dominant. So I played the submissive role privately for a very short while until my boyfriend & I split, and not long after, went to a (male) college friend’s dorm room for a study date. I actually walked in on him jerking off to femdom porn. It was awkward but we had a very open friendship & he explained what it was, and admitted that he met with a real-time prodomme on occasion. He showed me all these websites and my *immediate* thought was, ‘this looks like a blast; I could absolutely do this! I started camming in a switch role, until I found that submission wasn’t really for me and that I was much more comfortable with (and better at) female domination. From there I began offering real-time prodomme sessions after I finished College & not long after, entered the world of fetish & femdom clips also.

sbs: Would you say you are naturally dominant, or is it more of a roleplay?

LL: Hopefully the above answers this somewhat. I have experience in both submission and domination and while acting submissive was just that; acting, operating in a dominant way is just something that comes naturally and actually provides me with satisfaction & pleasure. Oftentimes people will misconstrue my manners or general domme-style as ‘not truly dominant’, because I say thank you for gifts and am generally pretty friendly to everyone, slaves & dommes alike, when in a public setting. I am also more openly sexual & flirtatious than many of my (equally successful and wonderful) peers, which can confuse guys who are not used to this from a dominatrix, only from submissive women. To these people I say: there is more than one way of dominating a man, and I will typically only grace you with my bitchy, bratty side if you’re paying me for the privilege 😉 Let’s just say I’ve been asked if I’m the devil incarnate from more than a handful of guys who have sessioned with me 😉

sbs: Some women would say they could do your job in a heartbeat, but it requires far more than saying “give me money or buy me stuff”. What skills do you think a successful Fin Domme such as yourself needs to have?

LL: Confidence, an understanding of the psychology of fetishes, quick wit, understanding of the art of tease and denial, memory, tact, genuine greed. Haha. In all seriousness, I see financial domination as a negotiation game in a mental and sexual minefield. And I love it.

sbs: Can you explain what makes a man want to be a financial slave? What motivates them to spoil you as they do so easily?

LL: The answer to this is going to be different for every individual, but broadly I believe financial domination is just like any other vice (alcohol, extreme sports, gambling, eating calorie-laden foods) – it combines elements of risk, fear, adrenaline and pleasure, which create that attractive & addictive rush us humans crave when put together. I truly believe findom to be the biggest, most real form of submission a man can indulge in, so if you have a strong submissive streak & are serious enough about achieving pleasure from it, that can often turn men onto financial slavery. Also; look at me…how hot is the thrill from knowing you were the one who spoiled me? Exactly 😉

sbs: What are your favourite fetishes to explore with your slaves?

LL: Ohhhh so many! Financial domination is high up there, of course. That to me is true power exchange and the pure rush that comes from receiving the larger tributes is hard to match. Humiliation is a big interest of mine, and of course that can take many forms (small penis, cuckoldry, etc). That kind of mental sadism just comes really naturally to me; sometimes I can’t believe the stuff that comes into my own head haha. Most of my customers enjoy me as a ‘sensual dominatrix’ and I’d say this is the area of domination I’m happiest in also. So anything within the realm of mindfuckery really gets me going. Lately I’ve been turned onto erotic hypnosis, which was something I shied away from for a while because I don’t like to do something unless I’m going to kick-ass at it. I won’t put out a product if it’s going to be ‘just okay’ – ‘mediocre’ is not my style 😛 So I took some time out, took a few hypnosis and NLP classes, spent a year or so reading a lot of books, and I’m excited to start exploring this seriously in clips and on cam in the coming weeks. Orgasm control is great fun too; anything from tease & denial, edging, ruined orgasms, chastity; I love to get a man to that weak spot; aching & ready to do almost anything for release!
In real time sessions foot worship & foot slavery is probably my favorite activity. I love having my feet worshiped, and it’s very cathartic to have a man on his knees licking my boots while I berate him.

sbs: What is the worst part of being a Financial Domme?

LL: Credit card limits 😉 Haha…honestly I would say timewasters but I don’t expend much energy before someone has actually handed over their wallet, so even timewasters don’t really get to me.

sbs: What is the most money that anyone has ever tributed to you (at one time or cumulatively)?

LL: For the most at one time, it would be $14,000. Cumulatively…I’m not even sure; I stopped counting & started spending haha

sbs: Have you met many other financial dommes? Is there ever competition over who gets the most slaves, money or gifts?

LL: Yes, on my recent trip to Vegas for AEE/AVN I met many of the other gorgeous girls in the online financial domination scene, including Bratty Bunny, Princess Ashley, Princess Lexie & Princess Kelly Sunshine. I was bummed I didn’t get to see Bratty Nikki who was there too; it was a hectic week! I don’t personally believe there to be competition; we all do our own thing & have our own successes. Instead I’m proud to be surrounded by women who empower & support each other, working *together* to drain wallets faster & harder hahaha. That’s actually my favorite; when we team up to rinse our slaves for our combined desires (trips to see each other, meals out together, etc). You boys don’t stand a chance.

sbs: What is the cruelest thing you have ever done to a slave?

LL: ‘Cruel’ is a relative term… I’ve inflicted severe pain, but they were begging for it, so is that cruel? I’ve locked guys up for weeks at a time, but again…they handed over the key…I’ve fucked wallets so hard a guy had to sell his bed, but what a rush for him sacrificing that hard!! Hmm…thinking about it, I’ve decided I’m super sweet 😉

sbs: How many slaves do you currently have “working” for you?

LL: If we combine real life & online, probably 5-8 at any given time. I have one TPE slave, an errand boy (post office, cleaning, occasional camerawork, lunch delivery, dry cleaning, etc), 3 guys in chastity, and then about 3-4 guys online that are loyal to and serving me.

sbs: Would you ever meet a slave in real life?

LL: I offer real time sessions, so yes, although I have a strict screening process. I have also had slaves take me out for coffee and/or dinner, I’ve done ‘cash drops’ and ATM meets, and indulged in real time shopping trips with financial slaves; I even let them carry my bags! 😛

sbs: How do you know when you have truly broken someone and are completely in control of them?

LL: I don’t think it would be overly smart to share this sacred piece of information 😉 More generally, getting a submissive to the point where they never question your desires is always a good start. Just them trusting that Goddess knows best, and that anything I am asking them to do, buy, plan for, etc is the right thing to be doing and is for either my pleasure or benefit, or their progression as a slave, is a good D/s relationship to have going on, in my opinion.

sbs: Have any of your clients tried to reverse the power dynamic and top from the bottom with you?

LL: This happens on occasion, yes. Sometimes it’s frustrating, but I think it’s a natural part of the process for some people, and I’ll deal with it accordingly based on where it stems from. Sometimes the guy is truly dominant and is resisting that by trying to throw himself into submission, and I have to work through that with them to show them that maybe this isn’t for them. Other times the sub is ‘testing’ you as a domme. Insulting but quickly fixed 😉 Sometimes it’s just the modus operandi of the sub to be this way; they enjoy the constant struggle for power. Aaaand sometimes the dude is just an asshole & will find himself quickly ignored.

sbs: Are the people in your personal life aware of your work?

LL: Yes; most of the people most important to me are aware. It makes life easier & less isolating to be able to be open about what I do with my family, closest friends, etc.

sbs: Cash or gifts? What type of tribute do you prefer?

LL: Ca$$$h!! I can always buy *myself* gifts with your money.

sbs: What role does Twitter play in your business? Skype etc.

LL: Twitter to me is mostly social, a fun way to interact with other dommes, easily share parts of my life etc, although I do occasionally acquire guys who go on to be consistent customers from it. It’s also a fun bragging ground; guys have big egos, and I love watching them try to outdo each other, sending me progressively larger tributes after I post a screenshot of one haha. Twitter is probably the best place to get a sense of what I’m about & is also where I post my most up-to-date info (travel plans, cam availability, etc) because it’s so quick & easy so I encourage everyone to follow me there. As for Skype, that’s pretty much the only place I offer cam sessions from these days so buying my ID & getting on my list there is the way to go.

sbs: Is there anything else you would like to tell your admiring worshipers reading this interview?

LL: Yeah. I’d like to tell them if they read this then they should buy me a gift to say thank you. Make it pretty 😉

Thank you again for your wonderful, in-depth responses to my questions, Miss Lix. You are truly a woman I look forward to knowing more and more as I promote and serve you. For you readers, you know what Miss Lix wants. How badly do you feel that aching need to surrender to her?