Some women are born to reign, with a natural skill for control, an appetite for power, and beauty that brings their subjects to their knees.
Meet the supreme Goddess Aviva: a NYC-based lifestyle and professional Dominatrix, BDSM teacher/mentor, and fetish model. Naturally dominant and mentally sharp, she has enjoyed BDSM for as long as she can remember. As Aviva grew into her feminine charms, she realized she had started bullying and manipulating others casually in her personal life for her amusement and satisfaction. Recognizing her kinky interests and natural talent for control, Aviva decided to train at a top NYC dungeon. With 5+ years of professional experience in the NYC fetish scene, Aviva has been mentored by some of New York’s most revered Dominas, expanding her knowledge and skill set.
Ravishing looks combined with exceptional intellect and expansive imagination were her tools of domination before she knew how to tie ropes and wield a paddle. As a dominant woman, Aviva enjoys controlling the experience of others, teasing and playing with her pets, and being served by the natural submissive. Her moods and sessions range from strict and severe to sensual and playful.
Physically, Aviva is what fantasies are made, with a beauty and presence that stops traffic. She is truly a modern day Goddess: a petite and all natural 5’3” and 120 lbs, with a 35” bust, 25” waist, and 38” hips. Her derriere in particular makes both men and women beg for more. With mesmerizing hazel eyes, silky skin, and curves to kill, Aviva is a specimen of Divine femininity. Her ethnic background is a European mix, mainly English and French.
The only thing sexier than her body and personality is Aviva’s intelligence and sophistication. Articulate and poised, she can carry on a conversation about her favorite exhibit at the Met as easily as discussing her favorite methods of slave training. She is college-educated from a top East Coast University, and her interests outside of kink include art, meditation, museums, hiking, and travel.
Goddess Aviva is “the real deal”- she understands the psychology of BDSM and fetish. Dominance and kink are simply a part of who she is. Aviva only chooses to explore with submissives she has a genuine connection to, so should you have the honor of serving her, it is always an authentic and stimulating experience. Aviva enjoys connecting through BDSM regardless of gender or sexual identity, and particularly enjoys playing with couples.
If you’re looking to know your place beneath a truly superior and dominant Goddess, your search stops now.
slaveboysmith: For any who follow you, it is very evident you control men with ease. Has that always been the case? Do you recall when you first realized the power you hold over men?
Goddess Aviva: I’ve been able to manipulate and tease men from an early age. I remember in high school making a guy get down and kiss my shoes in order to hangout with me. In college I started experimenting with hypnotizing guys through deep eye gazing to get them to do what I want. It’s an effective tactic that I still use today.
sbs: Are you naturally dominant in every aspect of your life, or is Femdom more a roleplay for you when interacting with slaves?
GA: I’m naturally dominant, so sessions and scenes with subs don’t feel like roleplay at all. It’s more about having a dedicated time and focus where we get to express our deepest selves: them surrendering as a servant or slave and me as a powerful Goddess playing with her toy.
sbs: If you could have one celebrity, or well known person, completely at your mercy, willing to do anything you demanded of them, who would it be, and why?
GA: It would be incredibly hot to have Jason Momoa submit to me. I love dominating big, masculine men, guiding them to express their femme side, and objectifying them for my amusement and pleasure. It would be a dream to have him at my mercy.
sbs: Is there a specific type of slave you find is drawn to you? Can all submissive men be persuaded to slip across that line into financial domination?
GA: A variety of subs want to serve me, I wouldn’t say there is one specific type. In terms of who actually earns the honor of serving, it does take good communication skills, dedication, and emotional empathy, so I guess the “type” of slave that does get to serve at my feet is capable and emotionally stable. I do believe all subs can be guided into financial domination. If you truly care for your Domme, and want to serve her, the best and easiest way is with money. There are usually some false societal ideas (for example, that paying someone makes an exchange or connection fake) that cause subs to resist Findom, but it’s just a matter of re-educating and training them on how best to serve.
sbs: Do you prefer to break and enslave men who might resist, or use well-trained ones that are already broken in?
GA: I prefer everything in life to be easy. I don’t have the time or patience to deal with someone who is resisting submitting. I expect all my slaves to come to me with an open mind and heart, ready to be guided and grow. I don’t think experience makes someone open, and some of the “broken in” ones have a lot of unlearning to do. So it’s more about someone’s approach and intention than about their experience level with BDSM.
sbs: Do you have specific fetishes you particularly enjoy exploring with your slaves?
GA: What I enjoy really depends on who I am with and what our particular dynamic is, however power exchange is a necessary element in all of my D/s relationships, which can be expressed in so many lovely ways. I really love when a sub has a foot fetish, because it’s so easy to control them and I adore having my feet worshiped. Ball busting and CBT are really fun for me! I also enjoy slave training, humiliation, corporal punishment, and objectification.
sbs: Can you describe the feeling you have when you have control of a slave, desperately doing whatever it takes to please you? Is it a rush, or just an expected outcome you’ve grown used to?
GA: It always feels great to know I have another sub wrapped around my finger, but I wouldn’t say it’s a rush because I do expect subs to completely adore me.
sbs: How can you tell when you’ve completely broken someone and they are unable to resist you? Is there a “tell” of some kind that lets you know you’ve taken total control?
GA: I only break someone to build them back up. My domination style can be very nurturing, and as with all things, I expect the best, which means I help my slaves to be their best self also. I know someone has fully submitted to me when are always expressing how happy serving me makes them feel, when they send me little messages, gifts, and tributes throughout the month, and when they let me know days they can serve in person. It’s all about how eager and happy a slave is to be a part of my life.
sbs: Have you ever been recognized in public? If so, how does the slave react to seeing his ultimate Goddess in person?
GA: I try to be very discrete, and don’t show my full face in pictures or videos, so to my knowledge I haven’t been recognized in public. I prefer to have some privacy.
sbs: For slaves looking to impress you, what is the best way for them to show you they are sincere in their desire to serve and spoil?
GA: The simplest thing a prospective slave can do is FOLLOW ORDERS. I usually make new subs jump through a few hoops to show me they are serious. If you can’t do what I say, it lets me know you’re really just serving your own desires and not here to sacrifice for my pleasure. Some of the initial tasks are getting gifts from my wishlist, buying training clips from my clipstores, or sending tributes. If a sub isn’t willing to use his money to serve me, he’s just going to drain my time and energy.
sbs: Is there anything else you would like to tell your admiring worshipers reading this interview?
GA: I love connecting with new capable subs in my hometown, NYC. Local subs interested in serving me can contact me on my website. If you’re not located in NYC, admirers can always subscribe to my OnlyFans page to have an exclusive peek into my life, buy my clips for at-home training, or arrange phone/text sessions. I also love to travel, and often have subs fly me to their city to meet me. Any bookings and inquiries are made on my website.
sbs: If you would oblige me one final question…if we were conducting this interview in person, how would it end?
GA: That depends on your comfort level with submitting to a new Domme! If we were in person, I would be very curious to test out your foot massage skills 🙂
